+ JMJ Guidelines for Engaging in Discussions I'm aware of a few guidelines in arguing with a person. First, at all costs maintain your calm and keep yourself in peace. No matter what verbal or written attacks may be launched against your person or ideas. Second, if the person is not arguing rationally, then you should 'break contact' because in their irrational state any logical arguments that you may put forward will only cause the person to hold to their irrational beliefs with greater tenacity. Second, what out for challenges in which there are a number of undeclared assumptions. If these are not made explicit there is a risk of answering the question but not the assumption. In face-to-face confrontations, it necessary to move from the 'artifacts' to the 'beliefs' and 'assumptions' in order to determine what motivated the attack or challenge. In other words a simple and effective response is the ask why the person they attacked y...
Seeking A Way Forward: A Lay Catholic Traditionalist's Thoughts and Reflections on ways to help the Church emerge from this crisis of Faith