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What The Hell As Long As We Get To Heaven!!!

+ JMJ What the Hell as long as we get to Heaven!!! These words were spoken by a seasoned Traditional Catholic who has passed on to his reward.  There's a lot of wisdom in these words.  Our goals are stated in the Catechism quite clearly:   Q. Why did God make you? A. God made me to know Him, to love Him, and to serve Him in this world, and to be happy with Him forever in heaven. In an earlier article I wrote an article on how to apply strategic planning to leading a Catholic Life.  I used a simply hierarchical diagram to try to explain the concept:       ... here's what I wrote in October 2022: Simply put, the Vision (desired future state) for all Catholics is to "Be Happy with God in the Next Life".  Our Mission (purpose) is to save our souls and to achieve that, we need to accomplish the goals of knowing, loving and serving God in this life. Whatever means (objectives) we take to achieve the goals, they all converge on the mission...

You Reap What You Sow!

 + JMJ As my daughter practised driving and parking, the following came into my mind: Sow good principles, you reap good decisions. Sow according to the Gospel, reap salvation. Sow bitterness, reap sadness. Sow discord, reap abandonment. Sow anger, reap conflict. Sow dishonour of authority, reap chaos. In other times, with other children, my thoughts would have been centred on end of life. 🤣 P^3

People are not complicated, they're complex

 + JMJ      I came across an article "Managing the Complicated vs the Complex" and thought that it presented an interesting perspective on people. A complicated system is one in which there is usually a predictable outcome by knowing the starting conditions.  A complex system in which the same conditions can produce different outcomes, depending on "interactions of the elements in the system." People are unpredictable because they are complex, not complicated, people are non-linear. For example, normally we would assume that a person will take actions that are best for them. However, I have been witness to a person who took actions that weren't best for them, but were the worst possible from someone else.  This doesn't make sense, but people aren't always predictable, they're complex. Another example is Catholicam,  I know I come back to this exchange from about a decade ago, but it is useful ( see link Cognitive Dissonance ). Rationally, Catholicam ...

Reblog: Managing Personal Finances (Alt Title: !!! Warning !!! Manage Your Money or be a Slave To It!

 + JMJ  A Reblog from May: Managing Personal Finances By Royal Canadian Mint (via Wikpedia), Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=35281220 Intro Decades ago I was introduced to a financial manager and agreed to sit down and look at my finances. We met in my one bedroom apartment and his first question was:  "How are you managing your debt?" My answer caught him by surprised: "Aggressively!!!" He was so impressed by this response that he passed it on to your colleagues back at the office. He then asked if I had a budget and I produced a Hilroy 20.3 x 12.7cm accounting ledger and we went through my budget. He noticed that my budget came up in the red and I explained that I was paid weekly and budgeted monthly, which meant that I had a buffer. I think that my attitude towards money comes from observing life as the youngest of five and comparing it to the lives of my schoolmates.  We lived modestly, we didn't have a usable car until I was 13 and used...

Navigating Catholic Life - Part _: The Importance of Respect

 + JMJ I've been thinking about Murrax's question and realized that I missed a key principle: Respect. So this article is on that topic and in particular meaning #2: Due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights and traditions of others. In "others" I would include Family, Friends, Authority and God (not necessarily in that order).     Thinking critically, I wondered what does "With Due regard to ..." mean? According to Merriam-Webster (link) , "with due regard to ..." means: With the proper care or concern for ...   Putting this together we have the following composite definition for respect: With the proper care or concern for the feelings, wishes, rights, traditions, of God, authorities, family, elders, friends, and others. So, holding a person in respect means that we will consider them as we make decisions and take action.  This becomes critical when the 'feelings, wishes, rights and traditions' run counter to our own personal desire...

Managing Personal Finances

 + JMJ NTS: This is a first draft that I am posting so I can see the errors and fix them later. I will remove this noticed after a week or so.  P^3    NTS Oct 15, 2022: Well it has been months since I posted this article and I finally reviewed and polished it up a bit :-). I will reblog on Oct 17, 2022  P^3 By Royal Canadian Mint (via Wikpedia), Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=35281220 Intro Decades ago I was introduced to a financial manager and agreed to sit down and look at my finances. We met in my one bedroom apartment and his first question was:  "How are you managing your debt?" My answer caught him by surprised: "Aggressively!!!" He was so impressed by this response that he passed it on to your colleagues back at the office. He then asked if I had a budget and I produced a Hilroy 20.3 x 12.7cm accounting ledger and we went through my budget. He noticed that my budget came up in the red and I explained that I was paid weekly and ...