Discouragement Hits Everyone Eventually

JMJ

So, Peter Skojec appears to be feeling discouraged and maybe a little battle weary. I get it and I understand how this happens. I've been there myself.

Here's the advice that I received / gave to Peter in a comment.

I hope it helps!

P^3

I arrived at a similar spot a few years back and here's the advice that I received from a priest that helped me immensely:

1. If you let your cup of grace empty - you will fall.
2. Studying does not 'fill' your cup.
3. You need to keep your cup full and only share the excess.
4. You keep your cup full by having a strong spiritual life. Start with spiritual reading, if something 'strikes' pause, pray/meditate/contemplate what resonated.

It was good advice and although I deviate from it sometimes, it is still good.

Something else that helps is to remember:
1. The first soul you have to save is your own. Do your duty of state.
2. ... then the souls of those for whom you are responsible (Wife and children)
3. ... then the souls of your extended family ...
...
X. Then there's the rest of the world.

Wisdom is seeing what is your responsibility and what is God's.

So, do your part, but don't try to do God's part.

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